Ratio 5 to 1 for every bad thing, you need 5 good things going for the one bad
Four Main Predictors of Divorce
Typically
Women Men
Pursue -vs.- Distance
Types of Personalities
Toxic -vs.- Non-Toxic
Women tend to pursue; Men tend to distance
Four Typical Patterns of People Who Stayed Together
When feeling the following you should try to move in the opposite direction:
Reactivity -Your reactions
Emotional Contagion -From anger to crying, high emotional levels are contagious
When trying to solve problems you want to keep your emotional level down.